Thursday, January 27, 2011

Thursday Thirteen - 13 Tips for a Romantic Bath

The beauty of winter and the long nights may offer many opportunities for romance but it also affects several of us by placing a grey cloud over us. For the single person, loneliness and fatigue may set in; for couples, the romance may become stagnant. It's time to turn the season around, make your own fun, add some romance into your life.

1. Rose Petals
One of the most common symbols for romance, the rose is not only a beautiful addition to your bath water and/or bath area it is delightfully fragrant as well.

2. Bubble Bath
Bubble bath comes in so many varieties it can be hard to choose the right one. If you know your partner has a special favorite, use that one. If not, try something a little creative like bubble bath in a champagne bottle.

3. Mood Music
Initiate a romantic environment with a little calm and relaxing mood music. Many stores offer nature or mood themed music. Pick out a CD that will help you create the exact mood you desire.

4. Candlelight
Restore that healthy glow with a liberal sprinkling of candlelight. Tea lights are easy to use, make little mess and are easy to throw away once cooled. Don't place candles where you may splash water on them.

5. Bath Loofah or Accessories
Why not give each other the ultimate bath and spa experience with a little skin pampering? Go shopping together and pick out a few fun bath products in a scent you both love

6. Skin Care
Take care of each others' skin and try new exfoliants or other skin improving products.

7. Hair Care
Give each other a complete hair washing, including combing out their hair during the conditioning process

8. Champagne
Celebrate your time together with a romantic toast. Use this couple time to renew promises or vows with each other. Or, just revel in actually having couple time.

9. Try a fun, sensual bath game.

10. Warm, Fluffy Towels
Put your towels in the dryer for a few minutes for a warm and toasty after-bath treat. Take turns drying each other off for a more intimate experience.

11. Mood Inviting Bath Soak
Bath soaks are usually a blend of ingredients you add to your bath water to create a desired effect, such as a sore muscle soak, stress-easing soak or relaxation soak. Most bath and body and drug stores carry bath soak products.

12. Privacy
A romantic moment is easily ruined with unwanted disruptions. Arrange your water play encounter at a time when you can be together alone. A great way to do this and create the perfect memorable night is staying at hotel with a spa or Jacuzzi tub in your room.

13. Shower Power When you don't have time to take a nice bubble bath with your partner, opt for a nice, hot, candlelit shower with incense and music. This is wonderful for mornings because it refreshes the mind for the day.

Mary Quast is the author of the sensual Soul Series. Check out her blog, Romantic Interludes during the month of February as she celebrates the 2nd anniversary of her 2nd book, Tormented Soul. Leave a comment during the month and have a chance to win a signed copy of Tormented Soul and a special gift from Lover's Lane.


Savanna Kougar said...

Mary, great romance tips.

Kimberly Menozzi said...


No bath tub here. Only a shower stall, which is fairly normal in this part of Italy.


I want a bathtub!!!

Paige Tyler said...



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Anonymous said...

Love the list, but you forgot the most important part - a bathtub that fits two, especially one over 6 feet and another with ample hips! I dream of a day where we can have a big claw foot tub or maybe one of those deep Japanese versions for two?

Anonymous said...

We just put in a six foot tub (larger than standard) and uh, think we may need to partake in items from your list. :) Happy Thursday!

Alice Audrey said...

It sounds like fun, but I can never get him into the tub with me.

Jamie said...

What an exciting and fun list you put together! Thanks cause I can't wait to try some of your tips on my hubby:)

Darla M Sands said...

I love a hotel suite with a jacuzzi! You've definitely given me ideas. Happy TT!

Rogue said...

Nice list, happy T13

Bratty said...

Man, my bathtub does not even look like that. Oh well. And two ppl in my shower? Would never happen. We are woefully relegated to after-bathing smexiness rather than during bathing. Oh well!

Xakara said...

This is a great list, but I wasn't born with the bubble bath gene. Now a multi-head steam shower with bench...I can go places with that!

Happy TT,

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