My post today is about heightening the senses.
I got this idea thinking of something today. Not too far from my house, there is a healing arts centre that features a sensory deprivation tank. You get into a tank of water, that envelopes you with darkness, and lie down on a few inches of highly salinated water. It is sometimes called a float. They market it for meditation.
I have always thought this would be a great place to make love. Isolated from the world, two people in a sensory cocoon could focus just on eachother and each sensation. By isolating the senses, you could heighten others. They have restaurants too where diners dine in the dark. It is a sensory adventure!
What about agreeing to having a silent encounter together? Rely on your eyes to read your lover's mood, with no vocal encouragement or feedback? Rely on their movements to tell you what you need to know. Learn to better read their responses through movement, or sound, or visual cues. Whatever you are left to rely on. You can become better acquainted and tuned in with your partner, and even your own responses.
I have heard that we all have one dominant sense. What is yours? What is his? I read a great book, wish I could remember the name, that suggested using the 'language' your partner sees the world in. So discover what they talk about to figure out their dominant sense, and describe things in the same sense to them.
Eg: Do they describe what they saw today? talk about music? are a musician? painter? You can determine whether they are visual or auditory dominant if you pay close attention to certain details. There are also feeling dominant men, that are less common, that are stimulated more by feelings. They wear their heart on their sleeve!
So ladies here is your assignment! Find out what dominant sense your partner sees the world with, and also, explore and isolate other senses for both of you!
Here's to SENSE-ual awakening! Happy Wicked Wednesday!