Friday, May 21, 2010


Flirting and Body Language

Jeanne St. James

Flirting is fun (and usually harmless). Sometimes women do it to get attention and sometimes they do it to try to attract a man (or a mate).

Women send five times more sexual body language signals than men…

So what ARE some of the signs of a flirting woman?

• She maintains eye contact repeatedly

• She fixes or plays with her clothes or her hair, like hair twirling or tossing

• She lowers her voice, making the male move closer

• She physically moves closer

• She makes gestures with her mouth, drawing a man’s attention there - like applying lipstick or licking her lips

• She touches herself or the man while conversing

• She leans closer while speaking, close enough to touch or whisper

• She shows off the skin of her back, chest, shoulders or neck – like wearing a low-cut top or lifting her hair

• She rolls her hips when walking

• She tilts her head coyly.

• She focuses on looking her best

So if you are a woman, have you caught yourself doing any of the above? If you are a man, which flirting techniques turn you on the most?


Savanna Kougar said...

Outstanding, Jeanne... I'm not much of a regular flirt, but when I do, I flirt up a storm and can employ all of those and not even be aware of some of them.

Jeanne St. James said...

I love to flirt too, it's just fun!

ladybirdrobi said...

My Mother flirts so well. She'd be a cougar if she was daring enough to. Me I never learned the fine art of flirting.


lisa brazeau said...

Flirting is an art, one I was never good at!
Love it...!