Tuesday, August 3, 2010
Tempting Tuesday - Become the Ultimate Temptress
Why become the ultimate temptress?
Deliciously long temptations create unforgettable sexual acts of passion. Making the effort to keeping him aroused all day definitely pays off, as you'll discover when you reap the rewards later. The benefits aren't just sexual, either. Letting your man know you desire him is a huge confidence and relationship booster. It helps keep you both connected intimately on a day-to-day basis and lets him know he truly is your number one. Let's just say if he's happy, you're going to be happy too.
There's no denying that men are visual creatures. Make the most of this knowledge by taking advantage of it throughout the day. If you live together, the morning is a perfect time to stir his senses. After your shower, walk around in only a robe without the belt. When you're getting dressed, take your time and stay half-way dressed for a while. Even better, wear something sexy underneath your clothes and make sure he sees you in it. The point is to start the day of with a little bit of sexual tension. (Remember, the goal is to draw out the tempting throughout the day, so don't overdo it.)
Your next opportunity for temptation is your morning goodbye. Instead of the usual goodbye peck, linger a little longer and leave him with something to remember. Add a little skimming of our hands over his back or booty for an added oomph. You could even give him a quick shoulder or lower back massage while kissing.
Your chance to let your inner temptress shine is best highlighted while he's away at work. You have an arsenal of options available to you from sexy text messages, naughty voice-mail, sexy letters and emails to sexy eCards, naughty pics or web cam peepshows. Keep in consideration what's appropriate for his field of work before deciding what to tempt him with.You may want to do one of these ideas every day for a week, or every few days or so you can randomly surprise him with a little something. Whatever you choose to do, keep it sexy and subtle and don't become predictable about what you have up your sleeve.
For nights when he doesn't race home and devour you on the spot, drag out the temptation a little longer with these tips:
Do not pass any opportunity to touch your partner. When you do let your hands linger a little longer than necessary and slightly graze areas you know are hot spots for him.
You don't need to dress up in a complete outfit for this to work (although he WILL love it). You can keep his visual interest by wearing an extra lacy bra and unbuttoning your shirt a bit. If you're wearing a skirt, bend over and make sure he can see you aren't wearing anything underneath it.
Unexpectedly Talk Dirty
Imagine you're in a bookstore or even grocery shopping. You are both browsing over the selections when you lean over and whisper how much you want him right now. Can you picture his response? What is so great about this tactic is he can't do anything about it until you are in private. All he can do is think about what you said.
Use Sensual Stimuli
Make the most of every moment. Download some short erotic stories to your iPod or MP3 player and play them while driving. Let him "catch" you reading up on the latest sexual techniques. Print out an erotic short story or poem and leave it for him to read somewhere. Go to an erotic art show. When you start thinking of ways to use this tip, more ideas will come and soon you'll be able to turn any situation into a sensually charged one.
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